The modern generation after 80s are now facing the common question, to find marriage partner. It is reported that the high rate divorce for after 80s is not a fresh news right now, people are confused why there will exist such kind of phenomenon. In regard thereof, opinions are widely divided. They can generally sum up as the following five points.
The first is the lack of tolerance, the cause of after 80s single child to become the high rate group for divorce is because that many of them are self-center, and have dim consciousness about the responsibility to society and family, this is much concerned with the spoiled love from their parents, they are always like to make decision for them, which has direct relation with the lack of tolerance to after 80s, it results the falling for their marriage stability. Meanwhile, with development of times, people in this group are now more caring about the emotional quality of marriage, they are not satisfied with plat life and don’t like the way of putting up with each other.
Second, economic dependence, the condition for fear of being hard to get married in eld which always happens to the girls, now the boys also have this concern, they also hope to have a strong economic back-up. After marriage, although the two both can solely take charge of one section, the contradiction in house still can show up gradually. They are usually spending money wastefully, the wage often is laid out in the half of month, afterward, they begin to ask for money from their parents.
Third, the low ability of cooking, the representitive feathers for generation of after 80s are un-independend in economy, low ability in house work, these are crucial factors to their breaking marriage, in addition to the lack of tolerance and understanding to each other, all of these become the causes of their easily divorce. According to a investigation, it is said that there are 30 percent married singles employing part-time house cleaner to help them do housework, 20 percent is done by their parents, 80 percent of them always go to their parents house for eating, 30 percent even ask their parents to wash their dirty cloth.
Fourth, being married hastely, the words of flash marriage has become popular in marriageable age after 80s, many flash divorce after 80s almost would say that they don’t know each other before marriage, and not discover that he or she has so many bad habits. So the cause of flash divorce is just from so called popular flash marriage. They are empty of deep understanding to each other and get married immediately, the unstable emotional base and the fast step of city sharpen their contradictions.
Fifth, it is easy and convenient, it is worthy to note that the majority of divorce after 80s don’t have the problem about the division of possession and raising children, this makes them easier to be divorced.
